Saturday, April 20, 2013

A Guide to Facebook's Privacy Options



Facebook Inc. offers many privacy options to its users.
The trick is knowing how to use them.
It isn't always easy to figure out, or to keep up with the changes the company makes over time.
Because of that, many users think that they're sharing information and photos on Facebook with close friends or family—only to find out that they have pretty much opened their lives to the world.
In addition to giving you control over who sees your posts, Facebook offers settings that will help prevent your account from being broken into, keep your name and picture from showing up in ads for products you've liked, and prevent apps from posting on your timeline.
Again, these are all valuable tools, but only if you can make sense of them.
So in that spirit, this graphic points out some of the most important Facebook privacy settings and shows you how to use them.
Facebook last week unveiled a redesign, to be rolled out over the next few weeks, that will change the look of the home page and the placement of privacy and security icons. But the settings themselves will not change


Prednisone - 10 Things You Should Know


Prednisone - 10 Things You Should Know


It's a very potent drug -- suppresses the immuno system to reduce inflammation 


About iPhone 5 - tips, tricks, Siri, user guide

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Friday, April 19, 2013

Doctor's Orders: 20 Minutes Of Meditation Twice a Day

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At Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston, doctor's orders can include an unlikely prescription: meditation.  "I recommend five minutes, twice a day, and then gradually increase," said Aditi Nerurkar, a primary-care doctor and assistant medical director of the Cheng & Tsui Center for Integrative Care, which offers alternative medical treatment at the Harvard Medical School-affiliated hospital. "It's basically the same way I prescribe medicine. I don't start you on a high dose right away." She recommends that patients eventually work up to about 20 minutes of meditating, twice a day, for conditions including insomnia and irritable bowel syndrome.

Integrative medicine programs including meditation are increasingly showing up at hospitals and clinics across the country. Recent research has found that meditation can lower blood pressure and help patients with chronic illness cope with pain and depression. In a study published last year, meditation sharply reduced the risk of heart attack or stroke among a group of African-Americans with heart disease.
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Martha O'Boyle, of Fremont, Calif., says meditation helps her cope with chronic pain.
At Beth Israel Deaconess, meditation and other mind-body therapies are slowly being worked into the primary-care setting. The program began offering some services over the past six months and hopes eventually to have group meditation classes, said Dr. Nerurkar.
Health experts say meditation shouldn't be used to replace traditional medical therapies, but rather to complement them. While it is clear that "when you breathe in a very slow, conscious way it temporarily lowers your blood pressure," such techniques shouldn't be used to substitute for medications to manage high blood pressure and other serious conditions, said Josephine Briggs, director of the National Center for Complementary and Alternative Medicine, part of the National Institutes of Health. In general, she said, meditation can be useful for symptom management, not to cure or treat disease.
Dr. Briggs said the agency is funding a number of studies looking at meditation and breathing techniques and their effect on numerous conditions, including hot flashes that occur during menopause. If meditation is found to be beneficial, it could help women avoid using hormone treatments, which can have detrimental side effects, she said.

More About the Mind and Body

Martha O'Boyle, a 51-year-old in Fremont, Calif., has suffered from chronic pain in her arms, chest and elsewhere since suffering from a heart attack two years ago.
"Here's a cardiologist telling me to go and meditate," said Ms. O'Boyle. "I'm thinking, does she think I'm crazy?"
Ms. O'Boyle began taking meditation classes at Stanford Hospital & Clinics in 2011. The eight-week class consisted of once-a-week sessions lasting two to three hours. "Once I started the class I saw the benefits of it," she said. Now, Ms. O'Boyle meditates every day for 20 to 45 minutes. "The pain is not gone, but it helps me cope with it," she said.
The most common type of meditation recommended by doctors and used in hospital programs is called Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction, which was devised at the University of Massachusetts Medical School. Dr. Nerurkar said she doesn't send patients to a class for training. Instead, she and other physicians at Beth Israel Deaconess will demonstrate the technique in the office. "Really it's just sitting in a quiet posture that's comfortable, closing your eyes and watching your breath," she said.
Murali Doraiswamy, a professor of psychiatry at Duke University Medical Center in Durham, N.C., says it isn't clearly understood how meditation works on the body. Some forms of meditation have been found to activate the parasympathetic nervous system, which stimulates the body's relaxation response, improves blood supply, slows down heart rate and breathing and increases digestive activity, he said. It also slows down the release of stress hormones, such as cortisol.
Dr. Doraiswamy says he recommends meditation for people with depression, panic or anxiety disorders, ongoing stress, or for general health maintenance of brain alertness and cardiovascular health.
Thousands of studies have been published that look at meditation, Dr. Doraiswamy said. Of these, about 500 have been clinical trials testing meditation for various ailments, but only about 40 trials have been long-term studies. It isn't known whether there is an optimal amount of time for meditating that is most effective. And, it hasn't been conclusively shown that the practice causes people to live longer or prevents them from getting certain chronic diseases.
Some short-term studies have found meditation can improve cognitive abilities such as attention and memory, said Dr. Doraiswamy. Using imaging, scientists have shown that meditation can improve the functional performance of specific circuits in the brain and may reduce age-related shrinkage of several brain centers, particularly those that may be vulnerable in disorders such as Alzheimer's disease.
In a study published last year in the American Heart Association journal Circulation: Cardiovascular Quality and Outcomes, African-Americans with heart disease who practiced Transcendental Meditation regularly were 48% less likely to have a heart attack or stroke, or to die, than those who attended a health-education class. Among the meditation group, there were 20 such occurrences, compared with 32 in the control group. The study, which ran for more than five years, involved about 200 people.
Recent research found that meditation can result in molecular changes affecting the length of telomeres, a protective covering at the end of chromosomes that gets shorter as people age. The study involved 40 family caregivers of dementia patients. Half of the participants meditated briefly on a daily basis and the other half listened to relaxing music for 12 minutes a day. The eight-week study found that people who meditated showed a 43% improvement in telomerase activity, an enzyme that regulates telomere length, compared with a 3.7% gain in the group listening to music. The participants meditating also showed improved mental and cognitive functioning and lower levels of depression compared with the control group. The pilot study was published in January in the International Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry.
Government-funded research also is exploring meditation's effect on dieting and depression.
Write to Sumathi Reddy at sumathi.reddy@wsj.com
A version of this article appeared April 16, 2013, on page D1 in the U.S. edition of The Wall Street Journal, with the headline: Doctor's Orders: 20 Minutes Of Meditation Twice a Day.

Florida Retirees Rock On

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Not Content to Sit on Porch, Florida Retirees Rock On

Change of Setting Offers Boomers Chance to Dance, Find Romance

It is Friday night at Sneaky Pete's restaurant and bar in Bonita Springs, Fla., and the dance floor is jammed.
A band called The Hype is blasting "Mustang Sally" and "Louie Louie," and the dancers are singing along, hands in the air, booties shaking, bodies sweating.
Almost all are well over 60. Some are past 70. They dance for hours.
"I have a totally different lifestyle here," says Beryl Mento, 66 years old, originally from Michigan. "Up there, I am Grandma and Mom. Here, I am Skyy," her dancing nickname and favorite vodka. "I had friends who had cute nicknames and I said, 'I want a nickname like that.'"
It is well known that Florida retirees play golf, sit on the beach and occasionally use walkers. They also rock out by the thousands at South Florida bars, looking for romance or just having fun.
In the enormous Coconut Point mall up the Gulf coast toward Fort Myers, Frank Pileggi, a 57-year-old crooner from the Jersey shore who performs under the stage name Frank Torino, is belting out "Love Me Tonight" and "Viva Las Vegas" for restaurant patrons. After dinner, he leads the crowd in line dances called the Cupid Shuffle and the Electric Slide, and in lots of jitterbug. Women outnumber men on the packed outdoor dance floor.
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Florida restaurants and clubs are full of dancing baby boomers.
"If I had my choice I would go out almost every night. It is my hobby; it is my favorite thing to do," says Carol Snyder, a 74-year-old with white hair and a deep tan who moved from Findlay, Ohio, 10 years ago. She and her husband hit Pagelli's restaurant in the mall to dance to Mr. Torino's songs as often as twice a week. When her husband gets tired, she and a female friend rock together, with others often joining. The dance floor gets so crowded she sometimes gets stepped on.
Not all Florida retirees go dancing, of course, but with baby boomers retiring, crowds are getting big.
Some are singles doing things they haven't done since high school, this time without parental guidance. Some women show up in slinky black dresses, sequins and plunging necklines, although many others are in pants. Men lean toward T-shirts, Aloha shirts, shorts and jeans. To attract older dancers, some clubs offer music at 6 p.m. or earlier and advertise early-bird dinners.
People say they get tired of feeling old. They hit the Sandy Parrot, the Stage, the Blue Martini and the Parrot Key. A dance is held Sundays at the Bonita Springs Elks Lodge, regularly drawing 200 dancers, almost all well over 60. The jammed parking lot ranges from pickup trucks to yellow sports cars. Some bars have expanded or brought in more bands.
Liz Castleman, 71, a native of Gary, Ind., spends half the year in Nashville and half in Naples, Fla. She goes dancing at places like the Naples Beach Hotel and Bond. On Thursdays she dances with the Naples, Fla., Singles Network.
Dancing is good for older people's health and balance, studies show, especially salsa, says Timothy Dougherty, medical director of the emergency department at nearby Cape Coral Hospital. Still, in the past two or three years he has treated a growing number of older people for heart attacks suffered while dancing. Two or three couldn't be saved, he says.
Ms. Castleman, a retired teacher and interior decorator, says she never has seen anyone have a heart attack dancing, but she can think of worse ways to die.
"What a better way to go than anything: just drop over dead. That would be really wonderful, actually," she says.
"When you turn 70, you're like, 'When did that happen? When did I get to be old?' " she says. "I'm going to live every day to the very end."
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BERYL MENTO
Ms. Mento—Skyy—and her husband, Dominick, return to Michigan to see children in the summer, but they rarely dance there. Places there are aimed at younger patrons. "Down here there are so many bars and restaurants that have entertainment and it is mostly people our age," she says.
Ms. Mento is a fan of Mr. Torino, famous locally for his imitations of Tom Jones, Elvis and Frank Sinatra. Counting private parties, he performs almost every night in the winter season.
"They are 70, they are 80, they are 90, and they love me," he says of his fans. "The hard part of this is seeing their spouses come in, and then they will come one day and say, 'You remember Shirley, well, she passed away. ' "
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Seniors dancing in South Florida.
Tom Pate, 72, dances three or four nights a week. Because his hair is thinning he dances in a "hair hat," a visor with pointy hair sticking up. He isn't allowed to wear it at the Elks Lodge dance.
A retired industrial designer from Kentucky, Mr. Pate specializes in bop, a cousin of swing, and travels to bop conventions in various cities.
"We preach to our friends: Get out of that easy chair and dance!" he says. He figures it is good exercise for his brain, too, "because you need to keep thinking to follow the steps."
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Beryl Mento, left, dancing in southwest Florida.
Larry Schwartz, 66, a retired New York City police detective, is a widower who sometimes meets women online and takes them to dinner and dancing. He also goes dancing with friends.
"There are like four or five places that we go to at least Friday and Saturday. Sometimes we go on a Wednesday and they are all mobbed all the time," he says. "Everybody is in the same boat; everybody is looking for somebody."
Steve Vigorito, 61, says older dancers are known locally as "snowcaps" for their white and gray hair. Some overdo it and lose their balance while dancing, he says, "but the dance floor out there is so crowded that you start to go and everyone grabs hold of you."
Mr. Vigorito retired more than 10 years ago and now organizes a group of seniors including the Mentos and Mr. Schwartz who hit Sneaky Pete's and Sandy Parrot together.
"We have a saying that I like," he says. "People up north survive. Down here, we live."
Write to E.S. Browning at jim.browning@wsj.com
A version of this article appeared April 16, 2013, on page A1 in the U.S. edition of The Wall Street Journal, with the headline: Not Content to Sit on Porch, Florida Retirees Rock On.

8 Useful and Cheap Digital Camera Hacks


8 Useful and Cheap Digital Camera Hacks 




digital camera hacksYou can actually get more out of a photograph with a cheap homemade reflector than an expensive lens when you are on the learning curve with your camera. The good thing is that the photography community is a friendly bunch. There are some great photographers shooting out advice in someamazing photography blogs.
The prime amateur photography lesson is that it’s just about composition and light. But the second most important lesson was taught to me by a professional photographer whom I hesitantly asked about the best kinds of photography accessories. He told me to just shoot more and learn till I find that I can’t absolutely do without that extra accessory. It’s all about squeezing the most out of what you have till you can’t squeeze anymore.
And when you hit the wall, you can squeeze some more by hacking day-to-day objects into nifty camera accessories. Yes, they might not do anything for your style, but they won’t hit your bank account either. So, here’s a roundup of some useful digital camera hacks that don’t cost the Earth and the moon.

Reduce Camera Shake with a Bean Bag

You Need:
  • A bag of lentils.
  • Discarded pair of jeans.
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If you are coming from a point-and-shoot to a DSLR that weighs 2+ pound (and that’s without a heavy telephoto lens), the first thing you have to learn is to stabilize your camera. High-end cameras have stabilization build in, but you still have to be rock still if you don’t want your photos to end up with the shakes. This DIY photography hack on Digitalcameraworld.com shows you how to reduce camera shake while supporting your camera with a homemade “beanbag”. Instead of buying one, you can make your own rough n’ tough beanbag with a discarded pair of jeans and fill it up with a bag of lentils. Some sewing skills will be required. But you can have someone like your wife do it for you.
In the meantime, you can save the $30 that takes to buy a camera bean bag.

A Camera Image Stabilizer You Can Carry In Your Pocket

You Need:
  • A short 1/4 inch diameter bolt.
  • A piece of string slightly longer than your height.
  • A large washer or other small weight.
This $1 camera image stabilizer tutorial on Instructables.com shows how you can make a carry along camera stabilizer with the materials mentioned and give yourself some extra stops of exposure. It is a very simple how-to and should take you just about ten minutes to put together. The idea is to attach one end of the string to a short screw which goes into the tripod mount under the camera, and the other end to a small weight held by your feet. The string is kept taut by the opposing tension created by the camera and the weight planted under your feet. The hacker says that this is a good technique to keep the camera stable and it works well for medium exposure shots. It removes vertical shake and you can also freely pan the camera horizontally. For long exposure shots, you will need an actual tripod. But the best thing is its ultra-portability.

Diffuse Flash with an Empty Milk Carton

You Need:
  • An empty plastic milk carton.
  • A pair of scissors.
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Direct flash can cast harsh shadows, hot spots or reflections. Flash blowout is a common problem in photography because internal flash units may not calibrate the right intensity of the light. So you may have to diffuse the flash instead of letting it fall directly on the subject. Creating some distance between the camera and the subject is the one way to do it though it doesn’t work in all situations. The second cheapest way (and there are many) could be to use an empty plastic milk carton.
Make your flash spread out by using the semi-opaque plastic on a milk carton. ThisDigitalcameraworld.com tutorial shows you how to cut around the handle and make a neat fitting flash diffuser. The curvature of the handle fits snugly over the camera flash and is small enough to fit in your pocket. You can in fact experiment with a variety of materials to create your flash diffuser – from toilet paper to white foam sheets. Use white semi-opaque materials because the color of the materials affects the color temperature of the light that passes through the diffuser.
A branded plastic diffuser is not very expensive ($5) but why waste even that.

The Flash Bouncer with a Business Card

You Need:
  • A white business card.
  • A pair of scissors.
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Bouncing flash off a surface is another way of diffusing light and preventing harsh, unnatural light to fall on the subject. Bouncing light also prevents hot spots and red eyes along with shadows when you are shooting indoors. You can use ceilings and walls to bounce the flash. But that’s possible only if you have an external flash. But worry not because here’s an almost free solution to bounce light off the ceiling with your own bounce card and the in-built flash.
The Party Bouncer card takes 15 seconds to fashion. Take a white business card made of cardboard and snip two cuts on the other end of the card and attach it to the metallic hinges of the integrated flash, preferably at an angle of 45 degrees. The Diyphotography.net tutorialshows it to you in pictures.
A professional grade bounce card (e.g. Rogue FlashBenders ROGUEFLAG Bounce Card) can cost as much as $30.

DIY Photography Backdrops

You Need:
  • Cotton Duck fabric.
  • Dowel rod.
  • Cup hooks (2).
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Instructables.com’s tutorial on how to create a cheap backdrop for your DIY photo studio should take you under ten minutes to set up if you are handy with a drill. You can buy cotton duck fabrics in any color starting with the standard black or white. This is one of the easiest tutorials I could find that allows you to make a full-length backdrop for your subjects. You can experiment with other cheap materials like colored paper, muslin cloth, velour, velvet, or even a non-creased table cloth. Ideal qualities are that it should be wrinkle and reflection free. Also, once you learn how to control depth of field, you can lessen the comparative importance of the background material.
Low-cost backdrop support systems (like the CowboyStudio Photography 6x9ft Black Muslin Backdrop with One Section Cross Bar) can cost upwards of $50.

Rain Guard for Your Lens with a CD Case

You Need:
  • A blank CD case.
  • Polythene.
  • Gaffer tape.
camera hacks
Whether you like it or not, you will be hit by the weather; pun intended. You camera might say it has an all-weather body, but it takes a brave man to risk it. Digitalcameraworld.com takes you through the construction. You have to cut two blank CD case covers and attach them with Gaffer tape so that they extend out and protect your lens from the drops. It is a simple photography hack, and all you have to do is precisely measure out the diameters as instructed.
Camera rain guards with lens protection can cost around $25.

Bokeh Effects Filter

You Need:
  • Sheets of black construction paper or posterboard.
  • Scissors
  • Electrical Tape
  • Velcro
camera hacks
Bokeh are artistic photo effects which appear as out-of-focus points of light. You can create them naturally with your camera settings and placement of your subject. Or you can use bokeh filters. The best thing about creating your own bokeh filters is that you can give them creative shapes in various sizes. Try Chris Perez’s cheap and easy DIY tutorial on creating bokeh effects with black construction paper.
Creative bokeh kits cost around $20 or more.

Remote Shutter Trigger

 You Need:
  • 2.5 mm Hands free phone headset.
digital camera hacks
Well, with the number of cell phones we change, you should have a spare handsfree phone headset lying around somewhere. Making one from a headset is easy if you have 10 minutes to spare. This Instructables.com photography tutorial shows you just how. You can do away with the ear piece by snipping away the wire leading to the ear piece as explained in the tutorial. The camera shutter stays open as long till the button in the handsfree is depressed.
Remote shutter triggers actually are very cheap. You can buy one for under $10. But it’s still fun to make one in the spirit of DIY.

Saturday, April 13, 2013

Elvis' Palm Springs Hideaway

Elvis and Priscilla honeymooned in the midcentury modern Honeymoon Hideaway (1350 Ladera Circle,elvishoneymoon.com ), and he spent much of his final decade in the city.

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VACATION MECCA | A view of the iconic (and since closed) Desert Inn.


THE LILY PAD-SHAPE steps bridged a waterfall and led our group to the front gate, where a fluorescent-muumuu-clad Priscilla Presley impersonator named Darlene Perez—aka Darling Presley—was waiting for us.

"Elvis recognized Graceland in these walls," she said, batting her false eyelashes and stroking the peanut-brittle masonry in the entryway. "The minute he stepped into the backyard, he looked around and realized he wanted to get married here."
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I'M YOURS | Elvis and Priscilla the day after their wedding, in 1967.

Palm Springs may not be the first, or even the third, place that comes to mind when pondering Elvis Presley. But in 1967, he and Priscilla honeymooned in the midcentury modern Honeymoon Hideaway (1350 Ladera Circle, elvishoneymoon.com ), and he spent much of his final decade in the city, leaving a mark that remains to this day.
I wouldn't describe myself as an Elvis fanatic, but I've always admired his originality and boldness. (He was wearing eye makeup and crazy one-piece ensembles well before David Bowie made them chic.) So when my husband and two of his cousins—a music-industry executive and a fashion entrepreneur—and I found ourselves headed to a family reunion in La Quinta, Calif., earlier this year, we decided it was worth a detour to follow in the footsteps of Elvis, visiting the places where he lived and loved, and eating like the King.

Photos: Elvis Lives! (in Palm Springs)

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Located in the Coachella Valley, about a two-hour drive east of Los Angeles, Palm Springs emerged in the 1920s as a retreat for Hollywood stars who were lured by its sunny weather and privacy. By the 1960s, it was a playground for the famous: Marilyn Monroe, Frank Sinatra and Elizabeth Taylor were all frequent visitors. These days, Palm Springs is making a comeback among celebrities and vacationers who enjoy the midcentury architecture, the Coachella music festival and the retro vibe.
Our first stop was Sherman's Deli and Bakery (401 E. Tahquitz Canyon Way,shermansdeli.com ), a kosher-style deli founded in 1953 and a Palm Springs institution. "Elvis used to come in and sit in front of that painting," said Joe Hanna, an 85-year-old manager, pointing out a Paul Blaine Henrie depiction of Elvis on the back wall. Mr. Hanna said that the singer used to show up with an eight-person entourage and order his favorite: a hot pastrami sandwich. Though a publicist for the Presley Estate said that she has "never heard of him liking pastrami," we preferred to take Mr. Hanna's word for it.
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Elvis Presley and his bride Priscilla prepared to board a chartered jet airplane after their marriage.
Our sandwiches arrived piping hot and overflowing with salty meat. To top off the meal, we devoured a fluffy coconut cake, one of the 23 old-school dessert options on the menu. We were off to a promising start.
Across the street was the Spa Hotel—now the Spa Resort Casino(100 N. Indian Dr., sparesortcasino.com )—where Elvis's manager, Colonel Tom Parker, is said to have taken mineral baths. While guests can still soak in pools filled with spring water that the Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians claimed had natural healing powers, the recently renovated hotel was not particularly evocative of the King, so we moved on.
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LOVE THEM TENDER | Priscilla Presley look-alike Darling Perez in the bedroom
We wound up a few blocks away at Route 66 West (465 N. Palm Canyon Dr., route66west.com ), a boutique that sells designer vintage costume jewelry and "opulent vintage plastics," like an emerald-hued Bakelite cutlery set from the 1930s ($995) and a 1970s violet acrylic necklace by designer Judith Hendler (also $995). Priscilla would have approved. Down the street were a couple of vintage furniture shops, including Trend House (675 N. Palm Canyon Dr.), which specializes in a mix of midcentury modern (a Corbusier-style chaise was $2,100) and newer pieces, like a '60s-inspired dining room set with zebra-upholstered chairs designed by store owner Joel R. Wolfgang ($5,200). The metal light fixtures ($1,125) would have fit perfectly in Honeymoon Hideaway, which a 1962 issue of Look magazine dubbed the "House of Tomorrow."
Next, we drove by the only property besides Graceland that Elvis owned when he died. In 1970, he bought the Spanish colonial-style house at 845 West Chino Canyon Rd., for $105,000 from Elton F. McDonald, part of the fast-food-chain family.
I'd spoken by telephone to Reno Fontana, a real-estate investor and sportswriter who in 1998 ran for the congressional seat formerly held by Sonny Bono. Mr. Fontana and his wife paid $1.25 million for the house in 2003. Over the phone, we had made elaborate plans for a picnic by the pool facing the valley below.
Designed by Albert Frey, the "desert modernist" best known for the historic Tramway Gas Station (now the Palm Springs Visitor Center), the stucco home became Elvis's bachelor pad after Priscilla left him in 1973. He added a basketball hoop to the end of the driveway and extended the roof over the Jacuzzi, which comfortably fit members of the Memphis Mafia—the friends and hangers-on who surrounded him—to protect himself from the increasingly intrusive paparazzi.
In the Hideaway, we set foot in the bedroom where Lisa-Marie Presley was possibly conceived.
Our Graceland West garden party was not to be. We would not marvel at (or mock) the likeness of the King sculpted in steel on the house's chimney, Mr. Fontana's addition. A few days before the arranged date, he emailed to say that he had been kicked out of the house pending a court date with his lender. When we arrived, the gate was padlocked and odds and ends—rugs, a vacuum cleaner, clothing—were strewed across the driveway. A tour van packed with Elvis enthusiasts pulled up to gawk.
Mr. Fontana said he expects to emerge from the lawsuit victorious and he's hoping to open the house to tourists again in November. Michael P. Rubin, the attorney for Financial Bonanza LLC, Mr. Fontana's lender, called the evicted owner "a con man and a flake." (By the end of March, Mr. Fontana's cellphone had been disconnected, and he didn't respond to .) emails
Gazing at the vacant home, my companions and I thought of the song "Spanish Eyes," which Elvis recorded there, with the lyrics, "Soon I'll return, bringing you all the love your heart can hold."
We headed to dinner at Las Casuelas, the first Mexican restaurant in town. Elvis reportedly loved Mexican food, and sang a Spanish song called "Guadalajara" in the 1963 film "Fun in Acapulco." He starred as a former trapeze artist who becomes a hotel lifeguard and finds himself trapped between two muchachas bonitas.
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A dish at the Original Las Casuelas restaurant
We had made a reservation at the Las Casuelas Viejas (368 N. Palm Canyon Dr., lascasuelasquinta.com )—there are now several Casuelas in the area—requesting the "Elvis booth," next to the kitchen. The restaurant was an inexpensive, authentic place where a TV played telenovelas nonstop. But there was no trace of the rock 'n' roll legend. In the corner, an ideal spot for some kind of Elvis figure, there was a ceramic cat.
"We are…not a 'Hard Rock Hotel' type of place," said Alana Coffin, granddaughter of founders Florencio and Maria Delgado. "The stories can be heard firsthand rather than by reading an article on the wall."
We ordered the Combo Plate #1—shredded beef tacos, beans, chile relleno—because Ms. Coffin said that's what Elvis used to eat. (He substituted refried beans with Memphis-style beans, she said.) We washed it down with micheladas (beer with lime juice and some spice) and iced tea, which the King used to drink with his Mexican food. "Oh yeah, he preferred pills to booze," said Andrew, the music-industry executive, when the waitress advised him to order the iced tea.

In search of a more upbeat retro feel, we headed down the block to Workshop Kitchen + Bar (800 N. Palm Canyon Dr., Suite G, workshoppalmsprings.com ), an industrial-chic restaurant with high ceilings and concrete booths, a seasonal menu and excellent classic cocktails, in a building formerly occupied by a 1950s movie theater. We ordered five "Palm Springers"—cocktails described as "similar to the kiss of an ex-lover…only without the early morning awkwardness and wayward feelings." Now it seemed as though we were channeling the 1969 Elvis hit, "Suspicious Minds."
The next day, our final stop—and the pièce de résistance of our weekend—was the Honeymoon Hideaway.
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A hot pastrami sandwich at Sherman's Deli and Bakery
In 1966, Elvis Presley leased the five-bedroom home at the urging of the notoriously controlling Colonel Parker, who lived around the block. The Hideway was built in 1960 by Robert Alexander, part of a father-son development company responsible for more than 2,000 houses in Palm Springs. Mr. Alexander had created the home for himself and his wife, Helene, a well-regarded hostess who rubbed elbows with Barbara Sinatra and Dinah Shore; Elvis rented the home for $21,000 a year (a copy of the lease hangs on the wall) after the Alexanders died in a plane crash.
Then 31, Presley was struggling to mount a musical comeback amid the twin threats of the British Invasion and the rise of hippie counterculture. He had made a series of films that were mostly profitable—and critically despised. Overweight and sporting a wig-like hairstyle, he turned to the desert to seek inspiration.
The 5,500-square-foot home has curved walls in every room and was renovated in the 1990s to restore it to its 1960s glamour. Now it's a museum stocked with Elvis memorabilia. In the Hideaway you can sit on the marital bed, complete with pink comforter, and stroll through the kitchen, with its state-of-the art pop-up cake mixer built into the countertop. (Tours cost $30-35 per person and can be booked online.)
In the leopard-print "Jungle Room," located in the back of the house, overlooking the pool, visitors can check out a recreation of the black leather ensemble Elvis wore for his 1968 NBC "Comeback Special." We set foot in the bedroom where Lisa-Marie Presley was possibly conceived and saw the indoor grill where Elvis would cook steaks in the summer.
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A vintage furniture shop in Palm Springs
According to Hideaway lore, Elvis and his then-fiancée, Priscilla, planned to wed at the home, but changed plans after realizing that their next-door neighbor, Hollywood gossip columnist Rona Barrett, was hot for the story. By the time the paparazzi pulled up to the house on the morning of their wedding day, May 1, 1967, the couple had made their way out the back door into Frank Sinatra's limo. Mr. Sinatra flew Elvis and Priscilla to Las Vegas in his Learjet and chartered a plane for everybody else. (The Elvis estate spokeswoman says that the escape to Vegas was the plan all along.)

After touring the house, we followed the path out through the backyard, creeping toward Rose Avenue, as we imagined the wedding party had, while the faint strains of "It's Now or Never" wafted from a strategically placed CD player. When the couple returned from Las Vegas, Elvis sang "Hawaiian Wedding Song" while carrying his new bride over the threshold and up the stairs. Lisa-Marie was born nine months later.

Over martinis at a bar that evening, we engaged in a lively debate about what, exactly, went wrong toward the end of Elvis's career. Would he still be alive if his music had remained relevant? Did his manager trigger his undoing by pushing him toward Hollywood? What was with the white embroidered jumpsuits? We may never know.

Then we heard it: the King's low, rumbling voice singing the 1969 hit, "In the Ghetto," over the sound system.
When it was released, the song was Elvis's first top-10 hit in the U.S. in four years. Listening to it, we forgot about all about the city's golf courses and tennis courts. We had fallen completely under Elvis's spell. We stopped talking and sang along.

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